Seduction Techniques - How to Seduce a Woman

Every man whims of doing his best to impress his wife or girlfriend when it comes to seducing her. Most often many of us think it is a very difficult proposition. Seduction is basically knowing your partner well and determining her interests. Read on to learn how you can master the art of seduction with just some simple basic techniques.
By Amol Vyavhare message icon | Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Seduction does not require any sort of practice or training or advert solutions. What is needed is your better understanding of her wishes and interest zones. If you are thinking about reading this article and aiming to jump directly into the bed, then I would say I am sorry my friend, I can't help you with that. What you require here is patience and self control. If you want to enjoy the fantasies that lie post seduction then you would surely need to get your act together, draft a wining strategy and be calm and patient. Here are just a few techniques which would help you achieve what you intend to achieve:

Appearance
Appearance is the first impression for anything and everything you imagine of doing with anyone. Before approaching a woman, make sure you are dressed to perfection. If you are at home you can wear a nice sky blue t-shirt or if outside you can opt for anything bright that suits you. Don't forget to wear a good cologne as it would just drive her to believe your perfection.

Communication
Don't even think of seducing a woman when you two didn't had any sort of communication. Communication is very vital before going for the kill. Your charm, your gentleness and your manliness must flow with your talk. Don't be stubborn and keep praising yourself. Try to talk to her about her interests and what she thinks about life. Let her know (make her know) that you are deeply interested about her and her views about anything and everything. Talk to her and let her know that you value her dreams and you wish they come true for her (don't lie, be honest and say that with all your heart). Please don't talk about physical anatomies or sex instead concentrate on pleasingly emotional talk. Have a soft tone while talking, rough tones would surely scare her into imagining anything. Also, make sure you don't point out her weaknesses, you can however make her know that past doesn't matter and the future would bring her all the happiness she has ever desired. Having a good communication session over dinner would just set the stage up for you.

Flirting
After an introductory round of communication you can think about having a exotic round of flirting. Make sure that you don't go overboard when trying to flirt. Be very sure that she is really bothered and interested in your flirting because it might not just be the right time (you know all the girly stuff). If everything is normal, just go for it. May be just a spicy talk about love and simple pat on her backs (o_O) would do the needful. If you are sitting, you can play the leg games or give a sweet warming touch to her hand and if situation-wise possible - even play with her fingers.

Body Language
Now did I hit the sweet spot here? Body language is the most crucial aspects of flirting with a woman. Have a sluggish body language and you are bound to lose before you start. Body language involves communicating without the use of any spoken language rather it consists of using your body to the most effect. Don't start staring at the fruits right from the start, instead try to look at her eyes deeply, then slowly her nose and finally (yes finally) her lips. While looking at her eyes, gently place your right hand on her neck and make her feel special. If you two are sitting on a sofa or a couch, be sure you are leaning slightly towards her. However don't try to do that when standing. When you are standing and when your eyes arrive at her lips, slowly make a move forwards. If you are lucky the kiss would commence.

There is no fixed formula as to how you can actually end up successfully seducing a woman, however with a honest and sincere approach you can surely get close. Try to be yourself and not someone else because that is exactly what your girl wants from you. Don't be a copycat, draft your own moves and implement them. You might not be the perfectionist but your attitude and your true efforts are all that would be needed to win her heart.